I also love the graphic they've added. No, it doesn't always look like this - but we do have our blissful moments!
From the article, here's a great example of a wise strategy for sorting out one's own feelings when jealousy is making itself felt. Kudos to Camilla (and thanks for the props!)
Now, I sometimes hold off on talking to the lover in question until I can answer two questions:
a) What am I actually pissy about?
b) Why am I pissy about this?
Once I can answer those two questions, I’m more likely to communicate my feelings better. That’s not to say that answering those two questions results in smooth sailing. Mr. Chaotic is still jealous/envious of the amount of time The Puppy gets to see me. The Puppy and I are still prone to mistranslating the other’s concerns as jealousy. We’re just better at dealing with it now than we were years before.